AD – This is a sponsored collaboration however, all opinions are my own.
Whether you have a disability or not the dating scene can be a very scary place. I know for a fact that I absolutely despise the idea of going out on a date even if I do usually enjoy myself once I’m there. It’s just that initial meet that is the really scary and a nerve-racking part right? Please tell me I’m not the only one!
It’s even more so when you feel like you’re different from the perfect “normal” person. Do I tell them about my disability beforehand or will that scare them away? This is something I used to ask myself all the time when talking to someone new.
Yes, It’s probably true that there are a lot more aspects to consider when dating with a disability but that does not mean it’s impossible. I am a firm believer that there is someone out there for everyone and that includes us with disabilities. Ever heard the saying ‘one mans trash is another man’s treasure’ well that’s the exact same for the world of dating too.
If you are disabled and looking for advice on how to approach the world of dating then look no further. On the other hand, if you are someone who considers themselves not to have a disability then;
1) Lucky you!
2) Don’t judge what you don’t understand.
3) You might not have considered snuggling up to one of us before but I’m about to show you exactly why you should.
BENEFITS OF USING DATING SITES:
The internet is a fantastic place that has made it so simple to meet new people. There are so many different free resources made available that you can almost find love anywhere on the web. I have had my fair share of online dating site experiences and I can safely say I would recommend it to all my friends.
These days you can even find dating sites that are specific for your requirements. Whether you’re looking for toyboy dating, cougar dating, men in uniform dating, blind dates or even amputee dating. There is quite literally something out there for everyone so don’t think that because you have a disability you can’t get involved.
One of the best things about dating sites is that you can put exactly what you are looking for and find them in a few simple clicks. Nobody wants to waste their money, time and effort on expensive dates when it’s not likely to go any further. At least with online dating, you don’t have to leave your house and can still meet someone on an intimate level. Whether you are looking for love or companionship a dating site can really help you find what you are after.
Even more so nowadays with COVID-19 still being in the air…
BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE:
There are SO many different types of disabilities out there that it’s almost impossible to keep track. You’ve got cognitive disabilities, impaired hearing, amputees, and mental health disabilities just to name a few. Some of which you wouldn’t have even considered being a disability in the first place.
I know from my own personal experience that it’s taken me a long time to accept who I am. I was always ashamed of my problems and forever hid them from the world. Nobody would know I suffered the way I do just by looking at me. Now I’ve learnt to embrace the person I am and use it to my own advantage. I love to openly talk about my disability and help people who are struggling with similar conditions.
Who’s to say that just because you’ve only got 3 toes, 1 leg and a missing elbow that you aren’t worthy of love and affection. I call that bulls*t with a capital B! (excuse my French)
Maybe you require a wheelchair to move around? Not a problem, it just means that when we go on our date to Alton Towers we get to skip the queues on all the good rides! It’s time to see the positives rather than the negatives and start living your life to the full.
Of course, amputee’s aren’t the only type of physically disabilities out there but it’s definitely one that unfortunately gets a lot of stigmas. The reality is that people love to stare and that quite often can give people the feeling of inadequacy.
By potentially using a site that caters specifically for your needs will help you to boost your confidence and know your worth. There are plenty of sites out there that can help to find someone who wants the exact same as you. For example; check out this free amputee dating site which will allow you to put all your cards on the table and find someone who will look beyond your disability.
FINDING YOUR PERFECT MATCH:
I never thought I would find someone who would accept me for the way I am but I did. Matt has been nothing but wonderful to me and has helped me through many times where I’ve been struggling. This is the kind of relationship that everyone deserves to experience. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had my fair share of negative dating experiences but overall the dating world has been good for me. Even more so now that I have Matt in my life.
Matt and I both have our difficulties but we have learnt to accept and support each other’s needs. Matt has dyslexia, Aspergers and struggles horrendously with tidying up after himself (don’t think that ones a disability though). I, on the other hand, have been diagnosed with depression, anxiety and borderline personality disorder (also known as EUPD). We could not be further from the opposite of one another but I guess that’s what makes us work. You know what they say “opposites attract” and they sure weren’t wrong there.
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