Some of the products mentioned in this post have been gifted to me in exchange for my honest opinion.

I’m guessing that you are currently sat hiding in the bathroom, aimlessly searching the internet for help and desperately waiting for your kid to stop shouting “MUM, WHERE ARE YOU?” Well, do not fear because I know that feeling all too well and I have something that will help you get back to super mum mode. Don’t get me wrong, my daughter can only currently say “DA DA DA DA DAAAAAD DAAAAD DAD” but even still that’s very high pitched and quite frankly annoying.

So to the mum who’s currently reading this desperately in need of 5 minutes by themselves. I want you to know that you are not alone (as much as you might want to be). All of us mums have moments when we feel like this so please remember you are not the first and you definitely won’t be the last. It’s completely normal to feel the sense of being overwhelmed whilst parenting. We all feel it and you know why? Because motherhood is the hardest job you will ever do. It is both physically and mentally draining but even more so when you love that person so much.

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positivWhite ‘Baby Girl’ Slogan Print Crew Neck T-Shirt – Bria

Sometimes us mums and dads need to take a step back and take one big deep breath. I often get so overwhelmed with daily chores, tantrums and over-excited children who never keep still and also never get tired. I’ve told myself that it’s ok to take a break. It does not make me a bad mum or a failure just because I need to be ‘Ashleigh’ instead of mum for a while.

Related: Preparing For A Positive Pregnancy With Birth Affirmation Cards


Daily affirmations can have such a huge impact on your thoughts, feelings general well being. They can be a great resource for making yourself feel better rather than dragging yourself down because who doesn’t like to hear nice things about themselves? The more you tell yourself something the more you will start to believe it. As someone who really struggles not to be negative Nelly 99% of the time, I found these really beneficial for my mental health and well being. If you’re struggling for inspiration then check out Pinterest as it is overflowing with affirmations and positive quotes from people just like you. I often like to save mine to a positivity board so that I can go back and look at them any time I need to.


If you follow me on Instagram you will know that I try to keep as happy, content and confident as I can be. I have t-shirts with positive slogans, I have quotes printed around my house, and I have numerous amounts of diaries and gratitude journals. I do everything I can to make sure that I surround myself with happiness. I will be the first to admit that happiness doesn’t come naturally to me. I suffer from depression, anxiety and other mental health disorders that sometimes prevent me from coping well in this funny thing we call life. However, I do fight against it and 99% of the time I like to think I win.

One thing that makes me happy is shopping! Yup, who’d have thought it! A girl who loves to shop… Recently, I was sent a load of slogan t-shirts from a company called Femmeluxe and I loved them. I have been living in them since the day the postman delivered them to my door. We all deserve a pick me up from time to time and this was definitely mine! They have made me so happy and I’ve even returned to buy myself some more since.

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White ‘Stay Home’ Slogan Print T-Shirt – Giana


  1. In the eyes of my child/children, I will always be good enough.
  2. It’s just a bad day, not a bad life.
  3. My children won’t remember how high my ironing pile was. They will only remember the quality time I spent with them.
  4. It’s ok to ask for help.
  5. Having days where I feel like I’ve failed doesn’t make me a bad mum it just makes me a real mum.
  6. I can only do what I am capable of – nobody is perfect.
  7. My dreams and desires matter too.
  8. I am the best mum I can be for my children.
  9. I do not need to compare myself to other mums because I am doing just fine.
  10. I’m very grateful for the moments I get to share with my kids.
  11. Motherhood has shown me strengths I never knew I had.
  12. I am not alone.
  13. Not loving every moment of motherhood does not mean I don’t love being a mum.
  14. I am able to set great examples for my children.
  15. Today has potential to be the best day ever but if it isn’t I will embrace the crazy side of motherhood.
  16. I am doing an awesome job!
  17. You never realise how strong you are until you need to be.
  18. I don’t need to control my kids I just need to help guide them.
  19. Whenever I look at my kids I realise how proud of them I am.
  20. I am becoming the best version of myself
  21. My family appreciate everything I do for them although, they might forget to tell me.
  22. I am brave and courageous for trying even when I don’t think it’s possible to succeed.
  23. I am a confident, content and beautiful women
  24. Making time for self-care is not selfish and I don’t feel guilty for it.
  25. I love being a mum.

You might also be interested in: An Open Letter To My Anxiety

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White ‘Overdressed’ Oversized T-Shirt – Lilian


If there are certain areas that you feel you need to focus on then make up your own affirmations. Not every one of those statements above will relate to you so pick out the ones that do. There really is no right or wrongs here so do what feels right to you. Some people like to create affirmation posters or cards, some like to write them in a journal and some like to read them out loud to themselves. It’s all about finding what works best for you.


Mental health is something that everyone will struggle with at some point in their lives. The worse thing about it is that it can’t always be seen. Although it can come with some visible symptoms it is quite often invisible to recognise. It’s one of those things that can be easily hidden away so people often think they are alone. The aim of my blog was always to be honest and show people the reality of life. Since becoming a mum I’ve realised how important that is. If there is one person in this world who judges themselves and compares themselves to everyone AND EVERYTHING else then it’s definitely a mother.

I just want you to know that from one mum to another we are all the exact same. We all compare, we all judge and we all feel like we could be doing better even though we are already doing our best. If you feel like this then you should know that that in itself already makes you the best mum. Do you want to know why? the reason why is because it shows that you care, love and want what’s best for your baby. You just need to keep reminding yourself that, which is why my daily affirmations are so god damn handy!

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White ‘There’s No Place Like Home’ Slogan Print T-Shirt – Jana

Whether you’re struggling with postnatal depression, anxiety, or some other pre existing disorder just remember… YOU’VE GOT THIS!!!

And for the days where you feel like you haven’t got it then know that I will be here for you. I am only an inbox message away and I will always be willing to listen. Whatever the problem (big or small) I will be there. That’s what this community is all about! You can find me on Twitter and Instagram.


  1. June 28, 2020 / 4:26 pm

    I’m not a mum (or a mom, as we say over here), of course, because I’m a dude (do you use that word over there?
    I always thought of “bloke” as the British way to say “dude,” but I don’t know), but I think a lot of those positive affirmations can be adapted to stuff I’m going through. Thanks for sharing.

    • July 18, 2020 / 2:11 pm

      Dude can be used over here for sure! but man, male, bloke, boy, guy is more commonly used 🙂 everyone is different! I love seeing how the English language can change depending on where it’s used. Anyhoo, so glad that my post ha helped you lovely. x x x

      • July 18, 2020 / 3:24 pm

        I know… regional differences in language and pronunciation are fascinating. I thought it was weird when I realized that Lancaster, Pennsylvania is pronounced differently from Lancaster, California, and that Beaufort, South Carolina is pronounced differently from Beaufort, North Carolina (despite being in adjacent states, unlike the two Lancasters on opposite sides of the country).

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